Am I fulfilling the vow I have made regarding my children?

Am I fulfilling the vow I have made regarding my children? Question As-salaamu ’alaykum, I made dua’aa for each of my four sons and one daughter when they were in my womb: ربي أني نذرت لك ما في بطني محررا فتقبل مني Now my three older sons ages 8-13 are in hifdh...

Birth control

Birth control Question As-salaamu ’alaykum, I wanted to ask the imam about birth control medication. I have heard it is haram to use and I am really trying my best not to do anything haram and stay on the righteous path. I have had a very troubled marriage so far and...

How to deal with misbehaving children

How to deal with misbehaving children Question As-salaamu ’alaykum, My eldest son is 11 years old. He is having behavioral problems at school and home because my husband lets our children have unlimited screen-time. When I try to put a two hour limit my husband...

Is there anything wrong with children sleeping separately?

Is there anything wrong with children sleeping separately? Question As-salaamu ’alaykum, I have read that the Prophet (saw) said that sleeping separately is from shaytaan.  I have a 2 year old son and a 4 year old daughter that I put down for naptime in separate rooms...

Naming one’s child Rafay

Naming one’s child Rafay Question As-salaamu’alaykum,  My son’s name is Muhammad Rafay Amjad. Is this a correct name according to the Shari’ah or should the name be changed to Abdul Rafay? Please guide me. Wassalam, jazakumullahu ho khair. Answer  بسم الله...